Thursday, November 1, 2012

New Beginnings

So, it's a new day.  I'm happy to announce that my divorce is now final.  The final hearing was yesterday, Oct. 31, at 9 am.  It took a half an hour to end a 14 year marriage, and somehow, it's just sad to me.  The deal is that he will have to continue to pay for my car, it's insurance, and have it registered in either of the states where we live (it's registered in MD right now, as HE didn't think it was illegal to have a vehicle registered to an address that neither of us live at), and he's to do that until the car is paid off.  Once the car is paid off, he is to sign the title over to me, as I hold full ownership of said vehicle.  There will be no other alimony.  He also has to return the items that I have asked for, and those include my Christmas Decorations!  YAY!  I get them back, and I never have to see photos of one of his girlfriends wearing MY Civil War clothing ever again!

At this point, I just want to start new, have a new life, a new love, and a new me.  I've been working hard on myself over the past 18 months, and I'm almost ready for the new love.  Need to grieve just a little bit more, and then I'll pick myself off, dust myself off, and move on.  Moving on is a good thing.  It's almost time to do so.